5 Phrases That Every BBW Wants to Hear

According to the advice on men’s sites, there are many articles about what women want to hear from men. While there may be some truth to this advice, often you need to dig a bit deeper to find a truer meaning.

If you’re meeting women on a BBW dating site, here’s what you can learn.

1. You’re so beautiful.

Every woman wants to be told she’s beautiful, but instead of making generic comments, mention something in particular. If she has a great new hairstyle, cute freckles, or a beautiful manicure, compliment her on special traits about her.

Woman can tire of hearing about being beautiful, particularly if it’s just said by rote, rather than any actual thought being put into it. When you’re trying BBW dating, most women have extra sensory perception that picks up on fake compliments. Also, avoid any sexualized compliments, such as about chest or bottom.

2. You’re right, I was wrong.

When you’re doing your BBW dating and you get into a fight, it may be tempting to tell her that she was right, particularly if you want the fight to end.

However, don’t just tell her she is right if you don’t really mean it. Most women on BBW dating sites have an internal lie detector. Also, we don’t expect you to give up on an argument. Women can appreciate a fighting spirit, and it’s not wrong to have a differing opinion.

3. You’re smarter than you look.

When you’re meeting plus size single lady on plus size dating sites, the advice is that women like being told that they’re smart and intelligent.

But the problem with this statement is that all women know they’re smart and intelligent. It’s not a compliment to be told this. In fact, it’s more important to compliment us on something you’re truly impressed by. For example, getting a great promotion, or fixing something that you know nothing about. You can also reword it to say how much you appreciate that we cooked dinner for you, or proofread your resume.

4. You look thinner today.

No matter whether women are size 2 or size 22, we all feel we have some extra bulk in our jeans. It used to be thought that it was a compliment to ask women if they’ve lost weight.

In fact, this can be a very touchy subject. When BBW dating, we’re worried about how we look, but asking someone if they’ve lost weight can backfire as a compliment. For one thing, it implies that you think we’re fat, or we need to lose weight. Not only that, but how does the plus size woman respond to it? Perhaps it’s best to avoid this subject entirely.

5. It May Be Too Soon But I Love You.

Not every woman wants to hear a man say I love you, particularly if we just met you on BBW sites. This is a phrase that should only be exchanged between two partners who are truly in love. Don’t say it just to get a woman into bed.

Some men may have some of these basics right for once, but delve deeper into their meanings, and you may just be on your way to a successful long-term relationship.

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